[JMJ333]

Yes, helpless. The child cannot do ANYTHING in this situation but watch her life crumble. And do you care? Hell no. Well, that is your opinion to have, but I think its cruel and self-serving.

Is the mother wrong and deceitful? Yes. Does that mean the man should end responsibility to a human being he has raised as his own for 14 years? Not if he has a heart.

Have a good day.

[End The Hypocrisy]

I don't see you saying that rapists shouldn't go to jail because it's unfair to have their kids rendered fatherless. Stop calling ME selfish. Meanwhile, as for:


>>>Is the mother wrong and deceitful? Yes. Does that mean the man should end responsibility to a human being he has raised as his own for 14 years? Not if he has a heart.<<<


It's hard for a man to remember he even has a heart when he's being forced at gunpoint to finance a despiccable ex-spouse's fraud.
I do care about the child's well-being, and I care about future children's well-being, which is why I say we must send a signal to future mothers that dishonesty doesn't pay. Then they'll act more on the child's best interests by staying in touch with the biological dad and only shacking up deceitfully with lovers who would make worthwhile fathers.