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I think women having children after marriage by others and deceiving their husbands about it is very serious wrongdoing. And I don't see how it has anything to do with your family situation so far as you have described it, either.

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My last was to marajade, btw. I don't think denying equitable options to men who have not the least relationship to one's father, regardless of how deplorable his characteristics may be, does anything but create vastly greater societal wounds.