[EternalVigilance]

I'm praying for you, Gail.

I've never cried harder than the day that my wife, now ex, moved out, irretrievably breaking our family of 20 years into little bitty pieces...and robbing me of daily contact with the children I had helped nurture from their first minute of life.

[GailA]

I am the product of a broken home, then because my first husband thought you could pick up a 6 week old with colic and spank him to shut him up, I ended my 4 year marriage. It took 10 years to find a good man, who I've been with 19 years now.

James and Cindy have been married nearly 3 years, but lived together for 5 before getting married.

I hope this is just 'baby blues and holiday blues'.

This is not good any time, being just 3 days before Christmas made it worse.