He used the most words to describe his own trauma, not hers, and I can imagine the stress of her husband getting himself arrested was much more stressful on her than the initial search.
"He used the most words to describe his own trauma, not hers, and I can imagine the stress of her husband getting himself arrested was much more stressful on her than the initial search."
Even if true, that doesn't change the conditions of the situation. It's still the "security" staff that are the instigators and abusers, going beyond the bounds of valid behavior.