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Marriage on the rocks
Jewish World Review ^ | Dec. 9, 2002 | John Leo

Posted on 12/09/2002 5:13:47 AM PST by SJackson

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To: OrthodoxPresbyterian
For that matter, "State Certification" of heterosexual Marriage, ALSO devalues the Sacrament of Matrimony.

Oh please ... utterly ridiculous.

The state is OBLIGATED to recognize that union and it does so by certifying same.

I'm sick to death -- particularly of the Economic World View "everything's a contractual relationship" crowd of libertarian sorts -- of the constant bemoaning of the certificate as some sort of "permission" to marry.

Like I said ... anyone can marry if they so wish. In order for that union to be recognized by the State (who is limited to recognizing Just unions which provide maximum freedom and justice to the children naturally a part of any lifelong conjugal relationship), it has to fit certain parameters.

Surely there's an evolutionist or two still lurking about here who can help me make clear the absolute differences in "fitness" where homosexual and heterosexual unions are concerned. That's just for starters.

101 posted on 12/12/2002 2:09:52 PM PST by Askel5
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To: OrthodoxPresbyterian
Does the definition of Marriage Biblically belong to the State? No, it doesn't.

What sand-trap? I never hit into them.

The definition of the marriage sacrament does not but the definition of the marriage contract does.

(You don't read the whole thread before you post do you?)

GSA(P)

102 posted on 12/12/2002 2:12:14 PM PST by John O
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To: OrthodoxPresbyterian
OP ... I'm having a hard time trying to figure out what you're arguing here.

Are you arguing that the State should not be forced to recognize the primacy of the marriage contract?

If so, than the marriages of my parents, the queens I know and whatever unions folks decide to confect between themselves and their pets have equal standing before the law since none are recognized as Legitimate Unions into which children may be born with the maximum of natural protections and legal rights.

103 posted on 12/12/2002 2:13:42 PM PST by Askel5
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To: OrthodoxPresbyterian
For that matter, "State Certification" of heterosexual Marriage, ALSO devalues the Sacrament of Matrimony.

How is the state certification of a marriage contract devaluing the marriage sacrament?

GSA(P)

104 posted on 12/12/2002 2:15:04 PM PST by John O
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To: John O
The definition of the marriage sacrament does not but the definition of the marriage contract does.

Really? Show me, in the Bible, precisely where the "definition of the marriage contract" is specifically rendered unto Caesar.

Chapter and Verse, and it better say to the letter exactly what you are claiming... or you are committing Sacrilege, and are at War with the Law of God.

105 posted on 12/12/2002 2:15:30 PM PST by OrthodoxPresbyterian
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To: OrthodoxPresbyterian
Your ideas would work well if Jesus took us out of the world when we got saved. Unfortunately reality is what you see around you. How can we reach the lost for Jesus if we rebel against his word (by rebelling against the government)

GSA(P)

106 posted on 12/12/2002 2:16:37 PM PST by John O
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To: Askel5
Public recognition of de facto unions establishes an assymetrical juridicial framework. Whereas society would take on obligations toward the partners in a de facto union, the partners in turn would not take on the essential obligations to society that are proper to marriage. Making them equivalent aggravates this situation because it privileges de facto unions with respect to marriages by exempting the former from fulfilling the essential duties for society.

That seems to me to be the definitive statement here...

I am deeply opposed to legal recognition and sanction of homosexual "marriage" but am still in the process of figuring out the root of my opposition... The above articulates some of my vaporous primal instincts about it...

As others have said above, society will lurch on. The steers, queers et al. will mangle cultural norms until they get what they want, whatever that is. No amount of counterexamples, proofs, logic, direct refutations, exposes of the truth, yelling, screaming, or foot-stomping is going to change that, due to a remarkable imperviousness that a NASA aircraft engineer would envy...

Meanwhile everyone succumbs to the weight of his own appetite, which is how black holes are formed... I know more black holes than not and it ain't a pretty sight.

Oh well, I'll be in my bunker with enough canned beans and ammo to put up a decent struggle when the b@st@rds come t' get my happy a$$...

107 posted on 12/12/2002 2:19:11 PM PST by maxwell
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To: OrthodoxPresbyterian
Really? Show me, in the Bible, precisely where the "definition of the marriage contract" is specifically rendered unto Caesar.

First you show me the scriptures I requested.

God tells us explicitly to obey the law. (see my prior post) If we disobey the law (even something as simple as marriage license rules) we disobey God.

GSA(P)

108 posted on 12/12/2002 2:19:13 PM PST by John O
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To: Askel5
OP ... I'm having a hard time trying to figure out what you're arguing here. Are you arguing that the State should not be forced to recognize the primacy of the marriage contract? If so, than the marriages of my parents, the queens I know and whatever unions folks decide to confect between themselves and their pets have equal standing before the law since none are recognized as Legitimate Unions into which children may be born with the maximum of natural protections and legal rights.

To precisely WHAT legal standing are you referring, given my argument?

Let me try to be crystal clear: The State does not have ANY Biblical Authority to "certify" ANY Marriage AT ALL. Such a "certification" would be a State Usurpation against the Law of God.

Respectfully, you seem incapable of thinking about this issue without presuming that the State MUST "certify" Marriage.

Why is that? Do you honestly believe that Abram and Sarai's Marriage was "invalid" because they didn't have a State Marriage License??

Tell you what... don't post me a long synopsis of Roman dogma on the matter, just answer that question. One word -- Yes, or No:


109 posted on 12/12/2002 2:24:57 PM PST by OrthodoxPresbyterian
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To: John O
First you show me the scriptures I requested.

What Scriptures have you requested?

God tells us explicitly to obey the law. (see my prior post) If we disobey the law (even something as simple as marriage license rules) we disobey God.

If we advocate the rendering unto Caesar of that which is not his -- we disobey God.

When we seek to disabuse Caesar of his Usurpations, we do not disobey God; we obey him.

You can commit Sacrilege and render unto Caesar that which is not his if you want; but as for me, I say that "We must obey God rather than Men". (Acts 5:29)

110 posted on 12/12/2002 2:28:59 PM PST by OrthodoxPresbyterian
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To: Clint N. Suhks
>>The slippery slope begins<<

No, the slippery slope began when the state abolished marriage and replaced it with registered cohabitation with benefits.

It is not surprising that gays, polygamists, pedophiles, and animal lovers want in on the action.

Posters who write, "Marriage is between one man and one woman" are correct only in part.

The part they leave out is, "and it is permanent".

That little part, when it was eliminated, was the start of the slippery slope.

111 posted on 12/12/2002 2:33:37 PM PST by Jim Noble
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To: John O
Your ideas would work well if Jesus took us out of the world when we got saved. Unfortunately reality is what you see around you. How can we reach the lost for Jesus if we rebel against his word (by rebelling against the government)

How can we reach the lost for Jesus if we advocate the State Violation of God's Law, by advocating that we render unto Caesar that which is not his??

When we violate God's Law and render unto Caesar that which is not his, the Lost will believe we are simply power-hungry Bible-denying hypocrites. Because, of course, when we violate God's Law and render unto Caesar that which is not his -- we ARE power-hungry Bible-denying hypocrites.

112 posted on 12/12/2002 2:35:06 PM PST by OrthodoxPresbyterian
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To: John O; Askel5
How is the state certification of a marriage contract devaluing the marriage sacrament?

By inviting Caesar to pass judgment on the "validity" of Abram and Sarai's Marriage, you have just whored unto Caesar that which belongs solely to the Family, the Church, and to God.

113 posted on 12/12/2002 2:37:50 PM PST by OrthodoxPresbyterian
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To: RnMomof7; xzins
My concern is always for the children. I have become much more a libertarian in my old age..I feel little desire or need to control the lives of others, in any way. The exception is helpless kids.. The state has an interest in minors..for that reason the "Domestic Partnership" idea is troubling..kids could end up with many many "mommydaddys " to visit..because the state says they have an "interest" in them..imagine the possibilty for abuse..

As you know, my own view is that there should be a "high wall of separation" between the Parents' authority over their children, and the "interest" of the State... a sacrosanct "don't tread on me" realm of parental authority, to be breached only in cases of outright Parental Abuse, etc.

As for Adoption, there really isn't any "libertarian dogma" on the subject of which I am aware and I tend to favor the formula of assigning Adoptive Preference to the extended biological family, in order of biological relation (this is what I call the "Braveheart" formula. I also happen to view this as the Biblical formula; correct me if I am wrong).

Admittedly, such a biological Adoptive Preference would create a situation in which Adoption by Homosexuals would be relatively difficult and uncommon (with the exception, I guess, of the occasional "gay uncle" who is the closest surviving relative); but I think I can live with that, even if the lavenders can't.

114 posted on 12/12/2002 2:53:47 PM PST by OrthodoxPresbyterian
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To: OrthodoxPresbyterian
I ~think~ the proposed law says that ~anyone~ that acted as a parent to the child has a parental interest and therefore rights..(I may have misread that)

My point was if biological mom lives with 4 other women during the raising of the children each of those four other women will have visitation and vacation rights (not to mention the biological dad)

Pity the children

115 posted on 12/12/2002 4:17:35 PM PST by RnMomof7
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To: RnMomof7
Posted by RnMomof7 to OrthodoxPresbyterian On News/Activism 12/12/2002 4:17 PM PST #115 of 115 ~~~ I ~think~ the proposed law says that ~anyone~ that acted as a parent to the child has a parental interest and therefore rights..(I may have misread that)... My point was if biological mom lives with 4 other women during the raising of the children each of those four other women will have visitation and vacation rights (not to mention the biological dad)... Pity the children

Egads.

Double Egads.

Well, like I said before... either there should be a "high wall of separation" between the Authority of the biological Parents and the "interests" of the State, or this sort of insanity will continue (which, it probably will).

Separation of Family and State.

116 posted on 12/12/2002 4:29:32 PM PST by OrthodoxPresbyterian
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To: OrthodoxPresbyterian
By inviting Caesar to pass judgment on the "validity" of Abram and Sarai's Marriage, you have just whored unto Caesar that which belongs solely to the Family, the Church, and to God.

C'mon, OP. Be serious. The State is not passing "judgment" on the marriage union by restricting itself to acknowledging as valid only the union of an unrelated man and woman.

How is that "passing judgment"?

If you wish to have the State honor the primacy of the marriage contract (as part of the Family's claim to autonomy and sovereignty), you must start by recognizing the union of the Founders.

117 posted on 12/12/2002 7:34:36 PM PST by Askel5
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To: OrthodoxPresbyterian
The State does not have ANY Biblical Authority ...

Yes. I'd like to keep it that way, thanks.

The state should stick to the natural moral law and leave the theology -- and Authority -- of faith (Christian or otherwise) to individuals willing to obligate themselves thus.

118 posted on 12/12/2002 7:36:04 PM PST by Askel5
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To: OrthodoxPresbyterian
Why is that? Do you honestly believe that Abram and Sarai's Marriage was "invalid" because they didn't have a State Marriage License??

Of course not.

I wouldn't exactly cite "the Bible" to source its validity either, however.

You sorta talk at cross purposes.

119 posted on 12/12/2002 7:37:24 PM PST by Askel5
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To: maxwell
The above articulates some of my vaporous primal instincts about it...

Happy to hear it.

Something to be said for those "vaporous primal instincts" ... =)

120 posted on 12/12/2002 7:39:24 PM PST by Askel5
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