Yes, there are non-violent Muslims; yes, there are moderate Muslims; yes, there are Westernized Muslims. Unfortunately, your list speaks volumns. Interestingly, I haven't seen any reports of late about Christians or Jews funding, coordinating, inacting, or supporting murderous acts against innocent men, women, and children. I'm sorry, but something about this particular religion incites these monsters.
Personally, I call it the "Lazy Man's Guide to Paradise". You can lie, cheat, steal, maim, kill, be intolerant to infidels and still go to Heaven. Little harder for those who have to be tolerant and follow civilized behaviors for entry.