LOL..... have you ever seen people having sex in public? I haven't but then perhaps you hang out in places where this activity happens "quite a lot"? If I were you I would avoid those places, but then that's just me.
BTW, could you list one instance where sodomy laws are used to enforce against having sex in public? I think most people having sex in public are prosecuted for 'public indecency'.
And yes I have. Why should I have to avoid a park so two guys can have sex?
There is a website that lists places in every state where men can find anonymous partners. It was posted here a few years back.