If my husband dies, I can collect benefits for myself and our two children to the tune of $3000 per month.
If my husband dies, he is well insured. I would not have a house or car payment. I would have sufficient funds to go back to school and gain a skill allowing me to support my family.
My husband has paid in less than $20k. I would be paid well over the amount that he has contributed.
This money may well have been intended to keep widows and children from being poor, but quite frankly, I would be very well off financially (until the youngest turns 16)if my husband died.