Oh, drop the nonsense. The overwhelming majority of Republicans that I know don't WANT to know about your personal life behind closed doors. Keep it private and they won't come looking.
You need to look at groups such as ACT-UP, which parades perversion in front of Roman Catholic Cathedrals (so much for THEIR tolerance), or GSLEN, which insists on having their deviant agenda taught in our schools and paid for withy OUR tax dollars.
The Gaystapo is the most intolerant group since Hitler's SS!
You know that and I know that, but there are many people who vote Democrat because they've been led to believe that Republicans want to throw their friends in jail. I think Republicans would do well to make clear that even if they came to power that isn't what would happen.
It's clear that ACT-UP et al. do not speak for the majority of homosexual people. And Libertarians do not support much of the ACT-UP agenda (since it involves having the government actively promoting immorality). Republicans should make clear that they do not have a beef with homosexuals who are discrete, who don't seek positions of either religious authority or direct control over children, and who don't seek to promote their lifestyle (especially using tax dollars).
If Republicans could do this, they wouldn't have to give up anything they could have gotten in the first place, and yet would deprive the Democrats of many of their "scare" voters.