[sinkspur]

It's especially contentious looking for people with the same values.

And it is true that many people who want(ed) more children don't have more because it just doesn't happen, not through any artificial means. I know a lot of those.

Then there are the materialists....

If you hold out for perfection, Desi, you'll never find your other half.

You might relax a bit and stop imprinting on every man you meet.

I also sense some longing. Stop "looking." Men don't date women who are "looking."

Men are also absolutely scared to death of women who are on a biological clock.

[Desdemona]

I also sense some longing. Stop "looking." Men don't date women who are "looking."

Well, I quit "looking" a long time ago. If it happens fine. If not, there's nothing I can do about it.

My standards are not astronomical, but they're not low and I am not about to lower them. At the very least, the guy needs to shower every day and be able keep up with me, short thing that I am, walking a 17 minute mile.

Biological clock? Guys are intimidated by brains. DOn't fool yourself. Blonde, busty and brainy apparently is not a good combination. Neither is good posture, confidence and morals.

Nobody's perfect...except Jesus and me, of course.