You might start by kicking your alcohol addiction.
Drinking alcoholic beverages is a ROTTEN thing for an expectant mother to do! I thought you people were all "for the children."
I mean, I realize you could just ABORT the child any time you wish--because thankfully, THAT wonderful, beautiful "right" for which you Godless, Leftist thugs have fought so hard, is still left to you.
But if you actually WANT the child, want her to be healthy and happy, you might get rid of the bottle.
Just a thought.
I thought that DU post was written by the FATHER, no?