So, take one's frustrations out on a child who, heretofore, thought somebody *loved* her. Make a public fool of her, and repudiate innocence.
I wish more "boys" would avail themselves of vasectomies.
There should be better research about vasectomy reversals for those wishing to have children, but these days a vasectomy (and a refusal to marry) can be a man's best friend.
Women, on the other hand, need to get over the idea that sex is something that men have to "pay" for. The mere act of having sex, should not be an indictment of a man's character.
So, you saying that if a man is not virtuous in all aspects of his life, he can be damaged in any manner with impunity? How about you? If I found you had been sleeping around, is it Ok for me to steal your car?