So true. And they never change. I believe I am one of those 'nice guys', but I am at a stage in My life where the prospect of matrimony is a tentative goal at best, and selectivity and the need to make a decision of quality are paramount in that matter. I find, however, that those women with whom I most pointedly (but in a gentlemanly manner) mention other women I associate with, and am less than certain to show up where they invite Me (those times where they corner Me into responding that I might show up) are the ones who keep going out of their way to come by, or stop Me on the street, or offer cookies or brownies or perhaps a place to sleep...
Bother! I mean I like women, but the more I hint to them I am not interested the more interested they become. Where can a poor mate like Me find a nice, conservative, homekeeper-type lass to settle down with? Someone who believes in the traditional values, to spend a quiet evening at home simply talking about life, and friends and family?
A foreign country. Though you would do well to recognize bringing her back here would open her to the same infection the indigenous women suffer from...unless she also happens to be VERY well educated.