>>The women I meet who are right about thirty are this way, at least. Too often they will express frustration way too soon in a relationship about how men won't "commit" and give them what they want. I can't help but feel resentful.
What were you doing in your early and mid-twenties, I wonder<<
They've told you what they were doing, Timm. They were "dating" jerks (dating is, of course, a euphemism for what they were actually doing).
When I was young, we called a girl who "dated" a lot of men "ruined". It's still a good concept.
Gentlemen prefer the road less travelled.
There was a lame attempt by modern women to impose some of prior courtship to the dating scene. The book was called "The Rules" The rules was doomed to failure because it had women imposing rules on men but not any reciprocal rules. (I confess I did read the book, I laughed at the sadness of it all) The book was written to empower modern women. It empowered them to unattractivness. It sought to impose results oriented feminism.
example:
A man opens the door for a lady because of what he is. A feminist rejects the courtesy because of what the man is, it is a rebuke of what he is not affirming what she is.