[Enemy Of The State]

Ill tell you why men dont want to commit.

Because we dont want to give away half of our stuff when the relationship goes sour. :-)

[FITZ]

Because we dont want to give away half of our stuff

Half if you're lucky. Sometimes all.

[anncoulteriscool]

*****Ill tell you why men dont want to commit. Because we dont want to give away half of our stuff when the relationship goes sour. *****

I once had a friend who said: "if it doesn't work out she'll take half your money, if it does work out she'll take all you money". LOL

[goldstategop]

In other words, if you can milk the cow for free, why buy it? A guy would be crazy to marry a woman he's not sure wants to have a real lifetime commitment from him. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for marriage but in this day and age it makes sense to wait for the right partner to avoid falling into one of those 50% marriages that after five years leave you worse off than when you married in the first place. No wonder men won't commit; its just too risky getting married if its not gonna last past the five year hump.

[BOOTSTICK]

Also men risk the stigma of being labled a molester, and NEVER SEEING THEIR CHILDREN AGAIN, if the marrage goes south. Which is what happened to a prominant judge here a few years back.