And believe me, I still have male friends which I respect and care deeply for, but as far as letting one into my life, into my home, and into my son's life...no way! Not in a million years!
If the above is what you think of men in general, you have no business raising a son. I can only imagine what he thinks of male-female relationships at this point
For every male-beast story you might have, I probably know an equally-bad woman who screwed the man in her life