We have to remember that he is being used here as a figurehead, and he has to parse his words so carefully, knowing one wrong word might end someone else's life. I would NOT want that responsibility.
I am sure the weight is heavy, and this may sound harsh...but in life and death situations, you need a leader. STRONG and CONFIDENT, SKILLED and IN CHARGE.
No disrespect to this man..but...when choosing the General to lead the army, you do not chose someone who shows the weight of the world on his shoulders. I know that sounds harsh..but..THINK.