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Many here have heard my story: I divorced a DIAGNOSED psychopath woman with a history of mental illness and child abuse.

The COURTS OWN DOCTOR recommended I be given SOLE custody and that their mother not even be allowed overnight visitation until she received mental health care.

Then she filed FALSE CHARGES of assault, at a time when I proved I was not even at home. She was arrested for filing false charges. amd the prosecutor refused to pursue her.

The kids were temporarily placed with me during a TWO YEAR trial during which one of my girls was HOSPITALIZED FOR NEGLECT after a visitation at their mothers' house...

She stole over $100,000 of household income, which forced me to attempt to file Chapter 13 bankruptcy, to save almost a million bucks in real estate properties. (also during the divorce and trial)

4 of her attorneys asked the court to be allowed to withdraw from the case because of her lying and failure to comply with court orders (also during the custody trial)

End result: New York State Supreme Court Judge John O'Donnell took them away from me and granted sole custody back to their mother and took them out of my home.

He also ordered me to pay $1800 a month child support, which wiped out the million in property..

The children's financial future is gone, they are abused in her home, and CPS and the new york state courst did ALLOWED it to happen.

New York State is a $hithole for fathers... move out of the state before you file for divorce, no matter how unfit their mother is.

Oh, and every time I talk about this I get some stupid feminists say "oh yeah but what did YOU do?"
Answer: NOTHING- There was not ONE SUBSTANTIALTED ALLEGATION against me. Period. And in fact many of her allegations were proven to be fabrications against me INCLUDING child abuse (also during the trial)

I know a guy whose ex-wife married her drug dealer and let him and his 2 teenage sons move in with her daughters. The drug dealing new husband made a pass at her older daughter who told her mother about and the mother threw the daughter out ---but still wanted child support. It got bad enough that the younger girl moved in with her father, he continued to pay child support just so the mother would leave the girl alone, she was more interested in the money than her daughters.