[CobaltBlue]

>>It also helped to have a very supportive husband who is a good listener!<<

Amen. One of the hard adjustments in a man's married life, I believe, comes when his wife starts putting the babies first, rather than him first. A mature man understands that this is nature's way, but an immature man feels shut out.

It's a passing thing, the babies won't be babies forever, and then the husband will come first again, if the relationship is good.

[Z in Oregon]

One of the hard adjustments in a man's married life, I believe, comes when his wife starts putting the babies first, rather than him first.

Solution: every father should put his babies first. Ostensibly, be their primary caregiver.