I feel very fortunate to have two.
Even now when I have $2200 a month due in child support, and no job...
My brother was married to a demon and she harasses him for every little thing. One judge ordered him to pay $500/month on top of about $2000 for 'lessons'. The kids didn't even go. He hasn't been able to see them for normal visitation in months.
I am a woman, but I have a lot of empathy for any Dad who cares about his kids and is stuck in this ridiculous system.