I hadn't thought of this, but obviously ItsAReligionOfPeace is an expert in psychology, and has informed me of my failings in reply #41. I thought I would pass this helpful hint on to you, so that you can psychoanalyze yourself and your husband.
I sure hate to think about what his reaction would be to some of my posts about my marriage! He'd have me committed!
btw, I love football, so we sit alone, together watching the Super Bowl, munching on junk food (not pretzels, however!), while the kids are off at their parties.