[DBtoo]

To be blunt at that age they are still too shy and immature to kiss or anything. They just get their little crushes and write notes to one another and that sort of thing. Then 3 weeks later it's over.

I had a big crush on a guy when I was 13; it consisted of admiring him from a distance and thinking about him a lot. If he would have approached me and tried to kiss me or something, I would have probably screamed with terror and hated him forever after. 13 year old girls are like that.

[rb22982]

I know girls who lost their virginity to guys at 13 and 14 in church homes of middle/upper class families. Although they weren't seeing 14 year olds, they were seeing 16,17 and 18 year olds. 14 year old guys will not know what they are doing so if they end up having sex or anything like that the girl is just as much to blame as the guy

Telling her no will just backfire, and if you talk to his parents, the same thing could happen with him. The best thing IMO would be just to invite the boy along with your family on outings and such so you can keep an eye on him, and make it seem as you do not care either way.

[notpoliticallycorewrecked]

You haven't been watching the media lately right? There are 12 year old getting pregnant these days, and you don't think that they are even kissing? Too many kids are being educated about sex from their parents R and X rated movies.