I would end that War in less than 24 hours.
It would show me that you were prone to be a follower instead of a thinker. It would show me that you handle personal stress (your fear of losing your child...by striking it, "repeatedly....in front of your boss....pulling your car over the side of the highway...possibly causing danger to innocent bystanders, just so you could whack your kid.
You've lost this argument with me. Let's just agree to disagree. You raise your children the way you want to. I have no problem with that.
But I would find a replacement the first chance I had. Sorry.