[Destructor]

"I will light 3 candles on my front walk. One for those who passed (the victims). One for those left behind (the families/children). One for those who will go on (all of us)."

An Excellent idea! I'll do the same thing with red, white, and blue candles.

[Publius6961]

An Excellent idea! I'll do the same thing with red, white, and blue candles.

This is a serious comment.
I could never light a candle.
To me it is a symbol of helplessness made real.

A sign of helplessness or submission.

Appropriate only under one condition, and this ain't it.