That sounds harsh, I know. I truly hope that your situation with your folks settles out; it was uncomfortable for me with my family until I was firm (but gentle), so I sympathize. You prayed for God about homeschooling, and he provided an answer. You prayed for God to provide a solution to your employment woes, and He has. Continue to seek His wisdom, and don't doubt that He has lead you in the right path.
It doesn't sound harsh. It is true. It would be nice if the rest of the family understood, supported, and assisted....but for me that is not being realistic in my situation. I am not going to allow their inability to understand to keep me from doing what I feel God leading me to do, however. I am leaning on the Lord! There are many circumstances in my /our lives right now that require just that! "what is impossible with man is possible with God" Luke 18:27! Standing and believing! The exciting part is waiting and watching to see how God will move in all these areas, and work His will! Have a great day in the Lord, all!