[almostheaven aka MrsDrumbo]

"As to a divorce which includes a custody agreement not being filed in a court of law" does not equate to "State judges decide the amount of time over and above the minimum visitation allowed to the NCP". Unless you think that when someone else chooses their amount of time, that the judge deciding to leave their time open even when they don't take any time is the same as the judge deciding their time. I don't see how anyone could conclude those two are even similar though. And I know the 14th amendment thanks.

[Brytani]

Again, ALL custody agreements put into a legal agreement through a judge either during a divorce proceding or hearing to decide visitation are approved by a Judge by his/her signature. The judge sets the minimum amount of visitation for the NCP based on the laws passed by the legislature of the states. Any change to the state minimum is approved of or set by the judge.

As for you knowing the 14th amendment I would say you don't understand it, since you support a system who takes two people displaying the exact same behavior that turns one into a criminal but has no criminal penalties for the other.