[wasp69]

Yes He should but does that mean that we just smile at them and let them put their carnality on us? Same as someone telling me not to put my morality on them? FWIW, I am a "love the sinner and hate the sin" Christian because that is what Christ teaches his followers.....

[Marysecretary]

You should love the sinner for sure, but you can't condone what they do. IF the pastor said this from the pulpit, he was in error. You speak the truth in love, not damnation.