Your statement seems ludicrous from a conservative standpoint, and I just want to be clear where you are coming from.
You have not been arguing a conservative position. The "deadbeat dad" propaganda is all extremist Marxists feminazi crap. Before we get into that, I'd suggest
this article. Then I should forewarn you that I'm an extremely knowledgable historian on the child support reforms in the US and elsewhere.
If adultery were made illegal again and divorces were not allowed then child abandonment and father's rights wouldn't be as much of an issue in society today. Currently in California, half of the children live in broken homes.