When discussing this with my children I gave them some words that I would like to share with you all and others on this thread. When your theology finds itself in conflict with reality, rethink your theology. G-d is real and will always conform to reality.
There are a lot of people out there who want to tell us that people can't change their sexual "orientation" or resolve gender identity confusion. The fact that there are lots of people who have successfully changed their "orientation" and resolved their confusion should cause anyone to rethink this position.
When it doesn't, what else is there to do?
Shalom.