[Clara Lou]

I was agreeing with the sentiment of her post, not the name. However, I do think your speculation is pretty idle. What value does sich speculation serve? None, IMO.
Spontaneous abortions can happen before you know it-- that's what happened to me. A few mild cramps over a very short period of time, and it was a done deal-- before I could get to the doctor.

[TankerKC]

I'll choose my idle speculation over your emotional replay of a tragic period in your life.