Well you can consider a threat anything you please, its a free country. What you can't do is accuse somebody of violence based on your feelings of what might or might not be true.
In this country, had he been guilty of violence he would have been put in jail no questions asked on her word. Just the facts maam, just the facts.
"She claimed that she wanted to abort the child as a result of verbal and emotional abuse, threats and harms she claimed her ex-boyfriend has put her through. Stachokus has denied her allegations."
If this statement doesn't meet the definition of "violent" I don't know what would... They just don't grant protection orders based upon a whim...