I know what you're talking about. But, you talk about the government as though it is some alien entity which rules from afar. Did the government just spring up out of nowhere and begin dictating terms and conditions on your life? Or is it comprised of your neighbors?
It is a crying shame I actually had to spell it out. I assumed you were smart enough to figure it out on your own. I know better now.
You stated that you have to get the permission of the state (government) to marry. What is the state (government) but just other people ruling your life (ie. your neighbors telling you how to live)? Should you also need the permission of the state (government) to procreate?
Really? Then why were you feigning stupidity?
And sorry, I do not waste my time trying to answer rhetorical questions.
The law is the law. As I said before to another, if you do not like it, then you should try to get the laws changed, or just shut up.