Bad advice may be deadly, and may bring certain legal problems in civil court.
I will not give selection advice in a forum context, and recommend that anyone wanting to purchase a weapon go to a local range affiliated with the IDPA (International Defensive Pistol Association)watch, listen and ask questions of the shooters, who will be happy to assist in a safe and educated setting.
If one does not train well and seriously the risks multiply exponentially and disaster is nearby.
There. I have said my piece. Now can I scream?
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Agreed.
I have been around firearms since I was a kid...took the appropriate safety courses, but my father was my mentor on the responsibilities of gun ownership and safety.
He bought me my Ruger .44 rifle when I was fourteen.
I posted this question in 2002 because I have never owned a handgun.
In the end, I tried different varieties and made a good decision.
I don't think it's wrong to ask for input...but perhaps at the time I was just thinking 9mm = personal protection, as opposed to truly researching the available options.
In any case, I love my Ruger .357 Magnum.
That said, what should I get to blow away a target at 1000 yards??? ;-)