[VaBthang4]

"I have my own."

Yet somehow.....you dont tell them.

???

[Quix]

Some people value their lives.

Some people value their pensions.

Some people don't want hassled.

Some people don't want loved ones hassled.

Some people have enough trouble sorting it all out themselves by themselves on their own overlooking a great peaceful meadow or beach. The idea of coping or bothering with all manner of ignorant and/or inexperienced opinions is not overly attractive.

I don't blame them.

Though I do think there are ways to get the stories out if they would persist in thinking it through and trying. Many do just before dying or leaving tapes or written documents to be discovered after their deaths.