Sorry, that's not the answer. Your advice to refrain from marriage because we can't deal with the symptoms of the real problem will only worsen our condition.
Men in America have stood up and shaken their fist at God and said, "No thanks, I'll do it my own way!!" That's the problem, and until the one who "was created in God's image" addresses it, our marriages, our families, our communities, and our country will continue to disintegrate.