...and I suppose you think that the excuses listed above allows you to set aside what you know is right and good.
In the US, twice as many women file for divorce as men. Financially, women make out literally like bandits in a divorce. They get a whole bunch of money they never had to earn. They steal it, legally.
Ask any poor schmuck who got screwed in a divorce what marriage is all about.
Why is there a growing "marriage strike" among men in the US? It's simple - marriage is too risky - legally, financially and emptionally. Loose your kids, your rights, all of your assets and become a criminal without due process. It's a suckers game for fools. Men are finally wising up.