My experience with Christians is that they know very little about the faiths of others, especially the faith of Jesus himself. They assume that they have all the answers, and everyone else is a cursed heathen who will rot in Hell because Christians have the greased path to goodness.You are not going to like this, but your statement leads me to believe that at least part of your experience might be due to a self-imposed filter of hackneyed cliches.
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