[185JHP]

One of the best things I learned in high school was that some people who don't like you, and won't ever like you, nevertheless are offended that you won't expend any efforts to get them to like you. BTW have you seen the book "Odd Girl Out - The Hidden Culture Of Aggression In Girls" - guess what it made me think of?

[NatureGirl]

Odd Girl Out

I haven't read this yet. I'll have to look for it. I understand the concept very well, however.

I've always thought that this was feminism's "dirty little secret" - just how vicious girls/women could be to those who don't "meet the standards".