I made that reply because of what you said in your post #44 on this thread:
" If anyone mistakes my reply as a defense of the VD's lifestyle they are mistaken."
Ditter, you are the one who brought up the lifestyle, and I did not mention it in my original post to you. Since my reply was #45, answering your #44, you could have easily read what you wrote and saved us all some trouble.
My post was addressed to you, but the sentance in which I used the word "anyone" meant just that. ANYONE (who read it) was what I meant. You seem to be upset because I mentioned the VD's "lifestyle" in a post to you & you hadn't said anything about lifestyle. OK you didn't mention it. Almost everyone else on here does mention it at some time or other, I was addressing them.