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You may think he's a lousy person but you can't deny the fact that he's bent over backwards to be a good father.

My question is what kind of man and father he is, if his former paramour would move 3,000 miles away from him in the first place. I suppose that answer will be revealed soon enough. Common sense would tell you he's not exactly a cuddly teddy bear.

My question is what kind of man and father he is, if his former paramour would move 3,000 miles away from him in the first place.

I hope you're not suggesting that everyone be measured by the willingness, or lack thereof, of their former lovers to live near them. I know I wouldn't pass that test on all accounts, and I doubt I could be completely objective on some of the women who were once part of my life.

The risk you take in having sex with someone is that you may have a child with someone you might not always want to be around. However, once you have a child with someone, you are always connected to him or her.