[jalisco555]

Actually, I know many gay people, some of whom are also in longterm committed relationships. Personally, I live and let live. What bothers me is that important societal issues like this should be dealt with in the political process, through open, democratic debate. It is poisonous for them to be dealt with by judicial fiat. If America decides to legalize gay marriage through the democratic process then whatever consequences accrue will have to be dealt with accordingly. But this decision should not be imposed upon us by decree.

[mitchbert]

What bothers me is that important societal issues like this should be dealt with in the political process, through open, democratic debate.

Absolutely couldn't agree more. The problem is that politicians tend to shy away from anything that smacks of controversy and lob the ball to the courts so they can then shrug their shoulders and say "Well, what are we supposed to do now?" It's frustrating and maddening, to be sure.