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To: Billie; blackie; whoever; lodwick; HiJinx; Mama_Bear; daisyscarlett; beowolf; Diver Dave; ...
Well, blackie, I was going to be flippant and search for a little girl biker to post as me.
Went to Ask.com and typed in 'picture of a baby girl biker,' and the search brought up the following.
While it was not what I sought, it shows one of the most loving of hearts - one of the millions of such hearts that comprise AMERICA.

Long read prefaced with "TISSUE WARNING!!

"Home Biker and the Baby
February 2nd 2001

Ride of Their Lives
How a biker's love rescued the baby nobody wanted!

Roy Hutchison opened the door and gently lifted the baby out of the car. Carefully, as if he where bearing porcelain in his brawny arms, he carried her up the walk to his red brick townhouse in Independence, Mo. From that moment, the child, swaddled warmly in blankets, a fluff of blond hair poking out, laid claim to his heart. She seemed a picture of perfection—but she was not. Tiffany’s tiny body had been severely damaged at birth.

Inside the house, Roy Hutchison set Tiffany down on a couch and turned to his wife, Judy. “We’ve got all those pretty new clothes for her,” he said. “Let’s get her bathed and see how they fit.”

Roy and Judy had often discussed becoming foster parents. When they learned of a handicapped child no one else wanted, Family Services agreed to put them through care-giver classes and let them take Tiffany. They each had two children from previous marriages, but they both wanted a baby in the house.

Tiffany’s story, as they heard it from doctors and caseworkers, was heartbreaking. Some eight months earlier, in September 1984, a mentally handicapped teenager had given birth in a restroom stall at a hospital in Kansas City. The umbilical cord had been wrapped tightly around the newborn’s neck, shutting off oxygen, causing calamitous brain damage. The baby had cerebral palsy. She was almost totally blind and nearly completely deaf.

Moreover, she had curvature of the spine that in time would constrict her breathing and probably shorten her life.

She would never talk or play like other High school, marry or have children.
Declared a ward of the court, she was placed in foster care. But her needs had proved too burdensome for caregivers until the Hutchison's came along. Some people might have been surprised that Roy, at age 37, had taken on such an awesome responsibility. “But he does have a big heart,” his daughter Barbara told friends. And as an emergency medical technician (EMT), Roy was confident he had the right training for the task.

Tiffany needed to be fed through a stomach tube every four hours; medications to prevent epileptic seizures also had to be regularly administered through the tube. She slept in a crib in the master bedroom, where Roy and Judy kept constant vigil. Even so, in kicking her legs that first week, Tiffany’s toes caught in the tube and dislodged it. They had to rush her to a pediatric hospital in Kansas City to have the tube replaced.

The routine was daunting, but it also had its rewards. When Roy cradled Tiffany against his cheek she would squirm with delight and her blue-green eyes would light up. “They’re glistening like diamonds, Tiff," he would tell her. Their bond was complete. And shortly after her second birthday, the Hutchison's adopted her.

But the pressures of caring for Tiffany did not diminish. In time the Hutchison's divorced. The couple was now faced with a dilemma. What was best for Tiffany? Should she have the medical care that only a group home could provide? Or was individual attention more important? Roy believed the latter; he just couldn’t give her up. And eventually he was granted custody in November 1988.

Now unable to work long shifts as an EMT, he took a job driving a delivery truck. His life revolved around his daughter: giving her sponge baths, balancing medicines to regulate her seizures, preparing her for nightly feedings that some times lasted as long as eight hours. As she grew older, there were runs to the day care center for disabled children and frequent visits to the doctor.

Power of One— Somehow Tiffany got most people she knew to go the extra mile.

When he brought her home at night, Tiffany sat nearby in her wheel­chair while Hutchison prepared dinner. “W’hat’ll it be, Tiff?” he’d joke, laughing out loud and caressing her cheek. “Fried chicken or steaks?” The child, who could eat nothing, devoured his affection. Sometimes in the middle of the night he would find her arched backward, her body rigid in an epileptic seizure. Then he’d gently massage her limbs until her body slowly relaxed and she lapsed into sleep. Deep inside this little girl, Hutchison sensed, was a resolute will to live. “As long as you fight, baby,” he’d whisper to her, “I’ll fight with you.”

Whatever Hutchison did, Tiffany did. Since she could not play, he made her part of his play. If he went to a movie, restaurant, mall, church, or even on a date, Tiffany went too. “We come as a package,” he always explained in advance. Even so, not every woman understood. Arriving at the Hutchison house for pizza and a movie, one woman saw a sign on a bedroom door “Tiffany’s Room.” She had thought the "handicapped daughter lived in a group home. “I think this date's over" she told Hutchison.

Though there was this missing piece his life Hutchison was too busy to be lonely. His job, nursing his daughter, spending time with his two other children, and working on motorcycles completely filled his hours. Over the years he’d let his beard grow, tied back his dark hair in a ponytail and gotten tattoos in proper biker style. Then in the fall of 1992, he bought a new Harley Davidson and set about refitting it with chrome-plated parts to compete at custom-designed-bike shows.

At night, he made Tiffany comfortable in the garage, pumped up the volume of her favorite music and worked away on his bike. Despite Tiffany’s minimal hearing, Hutchison had discovered that she could feel the beat. She hated heavy metal, but loved the sweet vibrations of country music. So he parked her in her chair to one side, and talked to her about mag wheels and disc brakes—over the pulse of Nashville’s hits.

For their first bike show in early 1993 father and daughter took the big black Harley into Kansas City in a trailer coupled to a truck. Tiffany, now eight, seemed to love the great auditorium filled With the body-shaking roar of motorcycle engines. She quivered with excitement when Hutchison took her around in her wheelchair to check out the bikes on display. At each stop, bearded, leather-clad bikers clustered around to clap Hutchison on the back and say “Hi” to his daughter.

Hutchison won a trophy at that show and soon became a regular at events around the Midwest. So did Tiffany—and Tiffany’s “uncles.” It all started at another show in Kansas City. Hutchison couldn’t drive the truck into the hall and was having difficulty unloading his equipment with Tiffany in tow. “Go ahead, Hutch, I’ll watch Tiffany,” a fellow Harley rider offered. “You need to get your bike inside and fired up.”

Moved by her, some of the bikers went an extra mile, taking part in charity rides for disabled kids.

Tiffany’s impact was often subtle. One uncle, Bill Young, 56, was a spray painter at the Ford motor plan in Claycomo, Mo. A wiry, balding man with a gruff manner and tattoos everywhere, Young worked seven days a week to provide for his wife and six children. Yet after watching Hutchison and Tiffany together, he felt a kind of envy "I’ve never loved my kids that way,” he confided. I thought love came from buying what they needed.” Inspired by Hutchison, Young cut his hours at the plant to spend more time with his family.

There was still a missing part in Hutchison’s family, too, but it was a lot harder to fill. Then in the spring of 1999, he met Eilene Brown, a tall and quiet-spoken divorced mother of a teenage daughter. For their first date, she rode for 100 miles on the back of his bike. But there was one more test that Eilene had to pass - Tiffany. Driving in his truck to a restaurant one night, Hutchison put Tiffany in the passenger-side seat and Eilene sat in the middle. As the truck swayed around a curve, Eilene put a tentative arm around the child and Tiffany cuddled in closer. Watching out of the corner of his eye, Hutchison thought that this just might be a woman with enough room in her heart for a broken little girl. Before long, Eilene was outfitted in a leather jacket and vest, and riding with him on weekends They married a few weeks after Tiffany turned 15.

By that time, love had kept Tiffany alive far beyond medical expectations, but her scoliosis was putting increasing strain on her lungs and heart and there was no way to reverse it. She was taken out of school, and confined to a hospital bed at home.

In early June 2000, on the Mon­day before Father’s Day, Tiffany’s lungs began to fill with fluid. She was gasping for air when Hutchi­son rushed home, and even with oxygen and his soothing touch it took hours to ease her distress. Day after day, Tiffany fought to keep breathing. Early Sunday, Eilene gave Tiffany a watch she had bought and wrapped in bright paper. ‘You can give it to Daddy for Father's Day,” she told Tiffany. Later that morning Hutchison found his present clutched in Tiffany’s hand. All day and through the night he stayed by her bedside. “I promised I‘d be with her at the end,” he said to Eilene.

At 2:30 p.m. on the next day, Tiffany weakly lifted her head and seemed to look at him with an expression of tenderness in her eyes. “It’s okay, baby,” he told her softly,

‘It’s okay for you to go.'

Shortly thereafter, her head sank the pillow. A look of peace came over her face, and she stopped breathing. “You’ll hurt no more, baby,” Hutchison whispered. “It’s your time now to laugh and sing and play.” ,p> "COME ON YOUR BIKE AND COME IN LEATHERS” Hutchison told the many friends who asked to attend the funeral. He wanted his close-knit band of “uncles and Harley riders” to dress as Tiffany had known and cherished them.

On the sunlit morning of the funeral, the street outside the Hutchison home was filled with bikers. After the service, an honor guard of six motorcycles led the cortege accompanying Tiffany from the funeral home to a small grave in a simple hillside cemetery. An endless stream of bikes followed the somber hearse.

They flowed along a winding country road to the sound of rolling thunder, a sound that Tiffany loved. It lifted Hutchison's grief and made his heart swell with Pride. We are winners Tiff, he thought. We beat the odds.

His love had given her life, and her life had given him love.

From the February 2001 Reader's Digest,
www.readersdigest.com "

(Took the liberty of posting this long one, Billie and Mama_Bear, in view of so many posters being absent for the holiday.
I felt it shows a nation UNDER GOD.)

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Valkyrie, Valkyrie Maiden Heads and Honda Wings Are Registered Trademarks of American Honda Motor Co., Inc All Content is covered under Copyright (Copyright © 1999) Valkyrie Owners Association International™ All Rights Reserved

133 posted on 07/04/2002 12:18:09 PM PDT by LadyX
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To: LadyX
Thank you for this beautiful, inspiring story! This is the heart and soul and spirit of America. I am glad you posted it here.


136 posted on 07/04/2002 12:32:19 PM PDT by Mama_Bear
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To: LadyX
Good grief, LadyX!
How in the heck am I supposed to write a mind grabbing post with tears pouring down my face?
Sweet Jesus, that is a beautiful story!
Thank you so much.
May God bless you for sharing that.
137 posted on 07/04/2002 12:45:03 PM PDT by COB1
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To: LadyX
His love had given her life, and her life had given him love.

Powerful post - thank you.

It reminds me of Kurt & Brenda Warner's story.
139 posted on 07/04/2002 12:46:26 PM PDT by lodwick
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To: LadyX; whoever; blackie; Billie; lodwick
IIRC, I first read this in a Reader's Digest issue...
It's a good thing I was close to tissues, because I needed them then, too!
God's Angels come in all shapes and sizes, and from all walks of life. If you blink, you're liable to miss yours...
146 posted on 07/04/2002 1:05:35 PM PDT by HiJinx
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To: LadyX
OH GEEEZZZ ... What an amazing story of love .. I am a complete mess here

Thank you for posting it ..

158 posted on 07/04/2002 1:27:36 PM PDT by Mo1
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To: LadyX
Good stuff !!
169 posted on 07/04/2002 1:49:24 PM PDT by blackie
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To: LadyX
I didn't want to cry again today, M. I did, of course.

Readers Digest always has some of the most heartbreaking stories. Bittersweet stories.

173 posted on 07/04/2002 1:54:36 PM PDT by Billie
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To: LadyX
What a beautiful story. The Honda of America motorcycle and auto plant are in our area. For many years they have held 5 day "Honda Homecoming" for Honda motorcycle owners around the country that draws over 15,000 people. Besides contributing to the surrounding communities (through food, hotels, festivals) several "runs" raise hundreds of thousands for a crippled children foundation. I wonder if this was the inspiration. I'll have to check it out.

Again, thanks and a wonderful Independence Day for you all! GOD BLESS AMERICA!!!!!
176 posted on 07/04/2002 2:05:29 PM PDT by dutchess
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To: Billie; Mama_Bear; blackie; lodwick; HiJinx; Mo1; Aquamarine; redhead; deadhead; ...
To those who made comments on my story on #133, they were much appreciated.
To those who have not yet read it, you'll find the heart of America beats strong and hard, with such examples of loving, God-given spirits.

Only WITH the grace of God can this nation survive.
Those who would attempt to remove Him from our lives only serve to strengthen our faith and fill us with indignation.

May God continue to bless this land founded in His Holy Name ~ ~ ~

212 posted on 07/04/2002 3:36:01 PM PDT by LadyX
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To: LadyX
What a heart wrenching, but uplifting story of father and daughter. You have reminded me that I need to get touch with a few parents back home who make such sacrifices daily. Thank you for posting this.

234 posted on 07/04/2002 4:50:28 PM PDT by Angelique
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To: LadyX
Thanks, LadyX. Just the Kind of story I needed to read tonight. Good one.
275 posted on 07/04/2002 7:01:28 PM PDT by Freedom'sWorthIt
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