[cyncooper]

I choose not to scan the faces of the van Dams OR David Westerfield and make judgements of how they should look. The boys deserve to be with their parents and not parceled out to friends for their outings. Why should it be so? I am sure we all have personal experiences of loss. I do, though not my own child, and I know that life goes on for those living.

[It's me]

Sure.

Different strokes for (very) different folks...