I'm still looking. Haven't found either of those but I did find some info we had wondered about before. You had found where the VDs were married in FL but moved to TX in '93.
"The family moved to San Diego five years ago from Arizona and bought the house on Mountain Pass Road a year later. Brenda and Damon van Dam, both from south Florida, married 13 years ago. Danielle was born in Texas, and the family lived in a suburb of Dallas while she was a baby. They moved to Arizona and stayed less than a year before Damon van Dam found a new job in California."
P.S. A few weeks ago her mother hung a sheer canopy over Danielle's four-poster bed. Article dated: February 17, 2002
I did find an article that stated BVD considered Danielle her friend and went for manicures together but no video yet.