[Byron_the_Aussie]

..have her throw the computer off a bridge. Then leave him. That would make more of a statement...

She doesn't want to 'make a statement', Lori.

She wants her hubby back.

[Lorianne]

"She doesn't want to 'make a statement', Lori. She wants her hubby back." She can't make him want her but she can make him choose. Maybe she's afraid of the choice he'll make? Throw the computer off a bridge and see what happens. That's my advice.

Alternate advice to women in her situation and/or all married women with trust issues in their marriage. Take off one weekend a month and go away. Leave the kids with somoene responsible. Don't say where you are going and don't say anything about what you did when you get back. Do this every month forever.

Trust is a two way street.