I learned, if I hadn't known, that I am a full-fledged member of the Mean Mommy club.
On the ride to Maryland, jax was taking cre of her baby - and one of the more frequent things I heard was "I just told you the word is NO" followed by you are in need of time-out, you've been naughty"
Gee I wonder where an almost 4 yo gets phrases like that from??????