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Thank you for sharing your heartfelt post. As for myself, I've said all along, that all I wanted to do was wait and see if what RR said proved to be true in trial..I don't care about the vd's being "outted"....as much as I've ALWAYS cared about the fact as parents of a murdered child were getting attacked. Just because I didn't join the "vd's are disgusting bandwagon" doesn't mean that I was defending them. We didn't know at the time if what RR was reporting was true. OTOH, I also felt that entirely too much devotion was given to this topic.

I have to quote myself from a freepmail I just wrote. It saves time and fingers....

"There is no one that can disagree with your comments about the VD's. Their "private" behaviour is disgusting and filthy... but even more, they've brought on way too much publicity, thereby distracting from the actual problem. Does this mean we need govt in the bedrooms of US citizens? Does this mean the US will now make laws against extra-marital affairs? Does this mean it will now be a crime?

On the other hand, the images on DW's computer are IMHO worse...the rape scene of the little girl was real and disgusting....a child was harmed and all people can talk about is brenda watching her husband have consensual legal sex w/a 3rd party "

Doughty, do I fault people for wanting to focus on their consensual sex lives? NO...the parents have been proven in trial to be morally bankrupt, disgusting and are bad role models.

Do I find it distressing that at the present time (at least for some) it outweighs the evidence being collected from DW's property..I'm not sure. It's bothersome..but not distressing. This is the beginning of the trial, and I'm confident that as time goes on, more evidence will be revealed, and I'm sure the focus, at least on FR will be on the evidence that is collected... Remember, the gag order prevented the media from getting many details...so as time goes on..we may find out that the evidence collected in the VD home may be worse than expected. I think the gag order prevented it from being revealed.

You asked What does a child think when they find dad kissing a woman other this their mother? Do they think that it's okay because they've grown up seeing that over and over?, I too am curious as to if they've ever gotten "caught" doing any of the admitted behaviours by the kids..

"the rape scene of the little girl was real and disgusting....a child was harmed and all people can talk about is brenda watching her husband have consensual legal sex w/a 3rd party "

Not that I approve of porn, but this was an ANIMATION. What child was "harmed"?

And WHY do you keep suggesting that Feldman lied in his opening argument when he said "THERE IS NO EVIDENCE that DW was ever in the VD home."

So if they're not caught it's okay? If the kids aren't out in the garage with them it's somehow ok to smoke mj? The kids know they are locked out either because it's bad or mommy and daddy don't want me there. And the reason Damon lied under oath is because he doesn't like the attorney who is defending the accused? Does it ever stop?

You asked What does a child think when they find dad kissing a woman other this their mother? Do they think that it's okay because they've grown up seeing that over and over?, I too am curious as to if they've ever gotten "caught" doing any of the admitted behaviours by the kids..

Kim trust me they know