I find the VanDams DISGUSTING. I also find the pornography purported to be in DW's possession to be DISGUSTING. I hold the VDs to a HIGHER standard. He is single. They are parents of young children. He is responsible for himself. They were SUPPOSED to be responsible for three young children. Instead they gratified their own desires at the expense of their children..in this case, at the expense of one of their children's lives. At the very LEAST, if they had been normal parents, it would have been MUCH harder for someone to get to their children...if that is indeed what happened, which I doubt.
I find the VanDams DISGUSTING. I also find the pornography purported to be in DW's possession to be DISGUSTING. I hold the VDs to a HIGHER standard. He is single. They are parents of young children. He is responsible for himself. They were SUPPOSED to be responsible for three young children. Instead they gratified their own desires at the expense of their children..in this case, at the expense of one of their children's lives. At the very LEAST, if they had been normal parents, it would have been MUCH harder for someone to get to their children...if that is indeed what happened, which I doubt.
Ok, then we're in total agreement until we get to the last phrase of your post. But I'm sorry, I don't see that that really answers the question I'm asking. Not, of course, that you were the only one my question was directed at.