NONE THE LESS: I do not appreciate having to pay for another family's support. IF I choose to assist another, I believe that it should come from me to those whom I chose. I believe in "helping hands," but I don't like the government snatching my hand away from me and shoving it over to hold up those who won't work!!!
WHEN I can help, I do...to the extent I know that I can...to those whom I believe deserve my help.
YOU MAY FEEL THAT YOU NEED TO "PUT SOMETHING BACK." GOOD FOR YOU. DO IT.
Meanwhile, I support my grandkids so that strangers aren't FORCED to do it WHILE THEY HAVE THEIR OWN FAMILIES TO SUPPORT.