If they disagreed with me about the definition of when life begins they would not be embarrased in the least.
But you are right, hate is too strong. They dislike the life they are carrying so strongly they wish to terminate its existance and are self-righteous when anyone might possibly disagree with them.
Sometimes this does describe the mother, but often it does not. 80% of the mothers are caught in a trap. Interestingly for the pro-choice crowd, she usually feels she has no choice. She has been told by men that there is nothing wrong with her allowing herself to be used as a sexual toy by a man. When she gets pregnant, and the man realizes that this could lead to an emotional, or at least a financial committment, he convinces her that she is only exercising her rights when she kills the child that might cause him a problem. He manipulates her and emotionally abuses her.
If she can get to someone who cares, someone at an abortion alternative center, for example, they can help her to see how she has been used, then acheive the strength to make her own decision. If she goes to someone who makes a living by selling death to her unborn child, she has no help.
Don't blame the mothers. Sometimes they deserve it, but often they do not.
Yes, I have my flame-retardant underwear on to protect me from all the strong women on FR who have no regrets about their abortions and were never, ever, under any circumstances, coerced.
Shalom.